Wedding Doula
Yesterday’s sunshine teaser ☀️ got me thinking ahead to the summer and that around this time of year a wedding invitation or two land on the doormat 📮
Firstly, as a new or expecting parent it’s OK to decline a wedding or hen party invitation. This is their big life moment that they want to share with you, but remember that you have a big life event going on too, which lasts more than a day. Make a decision that feels right for you and your family.
Secondly, if it’s your big day, you’re still a parent, and the day can still feel hard. Also, as the bride, anyone who declines your wedding invitation because they have a baby does not mean they aren’t wishing they could be there celebrate your special day, it just means they need to prioritise themselves right now.
As a postnatal doula I want to support you. I can provide consistent care for your baby whilst you and your wedding party enjoy the day. Benefits of having me there are
🌟 knowledge of where your baby is all day with the peace of mind that their needs are being met
🌟 you feel your baby is part of your day and is recorded in photos
🌟 baby isn’t being passed around between guests and family getting overstimulated and over tired
🌟 I’ll hold or wear and care for your baby close and subtly indicate to you when they need feeding
🌟 protect your baby’s feeding and sleep pattern
🌟 none of your guests miss out on the ceremony or celebrating.
I can support you through your special day so you feel calm, relaxed and able to enjoy your day.
Whether you’re the bride, a bridesmaid, sister-in-law to be or attending as a guest, if you think this sounds like something you’d benefit from, drop me a message to say hello and arrange a chat.
For babies over six months a wedding nanny/babysitter childcare professional may be more appropriate. A doula primarily provides practical and emotional support to mothers, to help you feel cared for.
I would recommend that we have a standard three hour postnatal visit prior to the day for me to understand your parenting, discuss what support you want, make a plan for the day and understand expectations.
Fun fact: My husband and I met at a wedding
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